Failure
Often our lives fail...They fail to make us happy, to meet our hopes..No finality..I know happiness is made of smaller happy moments but sometimes sadness seems more long lasting, more permanent..There are these Abba lyrics that say: if you see the wonders of a fairytale you can take the future even if it fails"..I wish i could believe these words, I wish I could at least be brave and hopeful enough to listen to this song again...
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Yaiya for ABBA...I love your taste in music, so far. Anyways, think I know what you mean. The happy times seem to come and then go so quickly but the crap times stick to you and it takes so much to get away from them...
Trust your instincts, be true to yourself, fill your life with the things that make you truly happy.
You will be OK. You have to.
The world needs nice people.
but you can....nothing stops your bravery but yourself. listen to it enough and it will get old and without meaning too. its our thoughts and the value we assign those thoughts that helps us or hurts us. in my relationship, i choose to be forever grateful for the five years of bliss we had instead of being miserable that it is no more. five years of true love is more than most in this life ever get. glad you doing better.
denn oxoxo
Healing takes time. Divorce is a wound that can run deep. Happiness comes from within, not without. Too often mariage partners expect their partner to provide their happiness. These expectations will always lead to unhappines, and divorce. Learn to find joy and happiness in you.
You seem like a young and wonderful person. You have a lot of future ahead of you. Don\'t give up. Tomorrow will be a brighter day.
- R
Friend. I wish I could give you words of encouragement but at the current moment I am just ignoring it all, hoping that just maybe Ill forget about it.I try to focus on the things that make me smile and laugh. Surround yourself with people who wont let you think about it...