Fluterify? Why are you saying that? If we didn't care we wouldn't of replied, hon.
However, there is only so much we can do, especially if you aren't willing to keep a open mind and accept suggestions and help.
I'm going to suggest that you make a doctor appointment first thing in the morning and tell him that you are in need of coming in for a new assessment.
It is not your fault, in any way, shape or form. Do not take ownership of that. You are starting to reach out when you fought back when you thought that we were blaming you. Good, that is the way to go. Hugs, we are here for you
Oh and fluterify? Here is another POSITIVE note for you. You said most people on here do not care?
First, I'm sorry you feel like they don't.
The truth is EVERYONE or almost everyone DOES care. : )
The truth of why you don't hear from many on here could be due to one of the reasons listed below, or a mixture of a few reasons listed below:
#1. They missed your post.
#2. They are afraid to reply.
#3. They don't know how to help.
#4. Another member already replied to you with exactly what they had to suggest, ask, and/or offer.
#5. They aren't on this site lately.
#6. They have tried to help you in the past but got pushed away by you.
#7. They are still thinking how to state what is on their mind, to present it to the best of their ability to you, to be of the best usefulness for you.
Please try to relax and stop thinking this site and the world is against you.... Hugs!
P.s.
* And yes, some show that they care about you with rough replies. It means nothing more really then they DO care but have lack of communication skills and/or that is their way of trying to get you to come out of your shell and open up and be willing to take advice, instead of going on the defense side.
They DO care, otherwise they wouldn't waste a second on you. : )
I'm sorry you feel you are not being heard. But don't stop trying, okay! Get loud! Make them hear. Can you find someone who will lend their voice to yours? Your mom, maybe? Always in your corner sweetie!
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Maybe but I know some people care. Most do not know what you are going though or they do not care.
Fluterify? Why are you saying that? If we didn't care we wouldn't of replied, hon.
However, there is only so much we can do, especially if you aren't willing to keep a open mind and accept suggestions and help.
I'm going to suggest that you make a doctor appointment first thing in the morning and tell him that you are in need of coming in for a new assessment.
P.s. and if you are drinking, using drugs or both I HIGHLY RECOMMEND that you tell your Doctor so.
HE CAN'T help you if you aren't 100% HONEST with him about EVERYTHING. Hugs!
I am HONEST and I DO NOT drink or do drugs!!!
It is not your fault, in any way, shape or form. Do not take ownership of that. You are starting to reach out when you fought back when you thought that we were blaming you. Good, that is the way to go. Hugs, we are here for you
Fluterify? I was *only* making a recommendation ... *IF* you were.
Hugs, and try not to take things the wrong way, ok?
Oh and fluterify? Here is another POSITIVE note for you. You said most people on here do not care?
First, I'm sorry you feel like they don't.
The truth is EVERYONE or almost everyone DOES care. : )
The truth of why you don't hear from many on here could be due to one of the reasons listed below, or a mixture of a few reasons listed below:
#1. They missed your post.
#2. They are afraid to reply.
#3. They don't know how to help.
#4. Another member already replied to you with exactly what they had to suggest, ask, and/or offer.
#5. They aren't on this site lately.
#6. They have tried to help you in the past but got pushed away by you.
#7. They are still thinking how to state what is on their mind, to present it to the best of their ability to you, to be of the best usefulness for you.
Please try to relax and stop thinking this site and the world is against you.... Hugs!
P.s.
* And yes, some show that they care about you with rough replies. It means nothing more really then they DO care but have lack of communication skills and/or that is their way of trying to get you to come out of your shell and open up and be willing to take advice, instead of going on the defense side.
They DO care, otherwise they wouldn't waste a second on you. : )
I know these 5 things but it does not change the fact that some people flat out do not care.
I'm sorry you feel you are not being heard. But don't stop trying, okay! Get loud! Make them hear. Can you find someone who will lend their voice to yours? Your mom, maybe? Always in your corner sweetie!