ENCOURAGING REDUCTION OF NEGATIVE ATIYUDES
Hi all. Why dont we start up a group called Th discourage negativeness group. The aim being to encourage posituve atitudes & discouraging negative ones. I know we can't change people but we can help to encourage them to. Optional. There are many examples of negative atitudes & many positive ways of altering or reducing it. One way may be to have a get together group or some thing where one person runs it or 2 & they put true senarios of situasions people find themselves in where they are faced with negative atitudes of othersThen the group leader or the members to can all look at it as if they were the one on the recieving end. First looking at why a person acts negative ect to how it makes him/ her feel. TOhow it feels ect for the person on the recievin end. Yes its a bit like a counseling group. One example pf a negative senaio that a can be used is. Your pushing a wheel chair with a disabled person on it in a long crouded street. People walk right up to you as if you were not therr or they owned the foot path. Another simulor example. Your pushing the wheel chair off of a bus & people are eger to get on as if ther was n tomorow. Its ok sayingthat negative atitude is part of live but does it have to be? Or artleast as mutch ot it as there is?. Once it is takled ect the beter as it will solve nop end of problems a to z. Im not just refering to any one thing. Ther are ways that some thing like this can be done but it takes more than one of us to do it.. My atitude to my hell is one example of inspirasion ect inthe positive ways.orbiefangraham. ake care.
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There is such a group it is called What I did Right check the group out it is a fantastic group
I read your profile and I am so sorry that you have gone through so much in life. My youngest daughter has had many major rejections as a child because she uses a wheelchair when going shopping for long distance walking. IT sounds like you have your life together and that is a miracle from all that you have been through. I have always been taught to treat others the way you want to be treated and when they don\'t to pray for them. IT is true that it only takes one to change the world because look at what Jesus did. He was only one and we are following Him in His footsteps. I wish you well on your group. Blessings
ahh i have run into that in the malls...and grocery stores..grin.. i find that if i use my cane and leg brace i usually get run over..but if i am using leg brace and walker it is like parting the waters..smile..so now if im using cane..i will freely admitt to ummmm...grin...aciddently shall we say tripping a few rude people??
sometimes politeness for the handicapped must be taught..grin
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heather
I\'m sorry you have to put up with those kinds of people. My dad is legally blind and can barely walk, but he refuses to get in a wheelchair. He gets bumped into all the time and pretty much just stays home. I believe that there will be a day when we are all GOOD people. Can\'t wait. Hang in there.
Check out the What I did Right Today group.
yes...positive attitude goes a longgg way when dealing with what life throws at you !!! Hugggsssssss
hey there i know your not doing to good right now but it will get better i know you have been through a hell of a lot in life i am the founder of a group called being your-self all about creating postive attitudes and a place where you can chill and be your self mary xx
I\'m slowly starting to realize that somethings should be considered gifts... and not a negative thing... although they can be an inconvience...(spell checker broke) there is a gift hidden...it\'s up to us to find it.. I\'m about to reveal mine.. I hope you accept