Easy to miss read signals
It is easy to miss read signals from the opposite sex when you are a widower/widow. Being and widow or widower makes you very vulnerable and lonely. This can make you miss read the signals that are being sent your way. I accept that fact this is what I did with Bill. He was just being nice to me. I have watched him over the years and Bill is a friendly person who likes to talk to people one on one. There was no overt flirtation or interest cause I got the signals wrong. I watched the movie "He Is Not That Into You" which made me aware of what the problem was in the interpretation of reading the signals wrong. I got the wires crossed. I own up to my mistake but than again I am a newly widow so I have to learn about all these things all over again. I am a people person and am friendly. I am not worried about being alone for too long. One of my long time friends who knows me inside and out said to me "I know you will not be alone for long Diane" and she is right. I won't be alone for too long as it is not me. I just have to get to know the signals and interpret them correctly. I am learning. I am capable of learning. I am not too old to learn. I am 54 years of age and can learn anything. Has anyone got their wires crossed like me or am I the only one who got egg on her face? I decided to avoid Legends for awhile till I feel better about going again. I think it is best for me. Besides there is another bar where beer is $1 cheaper if you order their pint of beer. I only go out to the bars with my friend Carol or Don. Other than that, I do other things. Bar hopping is not my thing but it was Smokey's thing. If I never had another beer in my life, I would be happy. If I could be so lucky as to get a part-time job, now there is the challenge. I am not worried. Something will come up for me. I am a person of faith so I am in God's hands. Take care of yourselves and I hope this week is a good one for everyone.