dreading tomorrow

I start my new job tomorrow and i'm pretty nervous. Plus Andrew is leaving for his week long leave so I won't have him for support. So my first week at my first job i'll be all on my own. Things with his family haven't gotten any better. I still feel like this big outcast. I'm trying the best I can to talk to them but it seems like it doesn't work, at least when it comes to his brother. His brother is the most rude person i've ever had to live with. He is so disrespectful of my boyfriend and it bothers me. He gets all the praises for doing  nothing when Andrew is doing it all! They make him  do everything around the house. All I hear is "Andrew do this, Andrew do that". Yet they give his brother the credit for sitting on his ass? It's not my place to say anything but I don't like seeing Andrew hurt like that. I can see his frustrations sometimes when he's trying to please his father but he always falls short of his expectations. I don't know how to make him feel better. I brought it up to him and he talked about it a little and got some feelings out about his brother, but he says it's just the way it is and he's used to it. I want to say something so bad but I can't, I just want to make it better for him. I wish we could live in our own place but his father doesn't approve of that and he wouldn't want to do anything wrong in his fathers eyes, plus he'll be leaving for Afghanastan in a year and I wouldn't be able to afford it by myself. I don't know how much longer I can take his brother ignoring me and being rude. I don't know if I can stick this year out. I love Andrew so much and want to spend this year with him before he deploys. Somehow I have to suck it up.