Dreading going home from work

So after last nights episode as per last journal entry, I am dreading going home tonight.  I rang up and he didnt' say anything on the phone so I said 'hows things, I'm going to be late home", "how do you f##kn think things are, if they were f##kn great I wouldn't be planning to go back to states" was his controlled rage reply before he hung up.
Wow makes me want to pack up and go home now.  Yeah right.  Which means he's stewed on this latest incident all day.  Which is not good because no matter what I say or do tonight or over the weekend, its going to be wrong and I'm likely to set him off.  I hate this.  I'm going to be later home now even more so because it will be peak hour traffic, but maybe he will have fed our daughter so I dont have to be there in case I set him off.
But then what, what will happen when I walk in the door.   I'm already tired, will I have to sit and listen to him rant on for a couple of hours on how everything is my fault and what I am going to do about it, or maybe he'll smash things or .......