When one door closes, another door opens!
Having said that, let me rofl because as this is so true, some of those other doors are also not exactly "Door #3 and You Win!!"  Some are "Door #3 and wtf is this?"  Well, after all these years, I just kinda roll with the punches and accept what is (what else? denial?) and try to find creative solutions to deal with what it is.
Wishing everyone lots of "creative solutions" to life's twists and turns.  Lots of love and hugs to go along with that, we are all ultimately only just human beings who are learning about many things as we travel along.  I am learning a lot about "boundaries and choices."   :)