does God want me to be a chump?

stbx asked me on the day i served him with divorce papers to pick up his dry cleaning.  i did it 2 b kind, but i dont even know if it can be considered kid b/c my attitude about it is pain.  i keep thinking y did he ask me? does he have no friends? im sure its  a small thing to him and he cld care less so y ask me?
i feel like im being used.
shd i have sd no?
and then he wanted to dictate to me where i wld bring it.  to his job or to his house.  ur asking me to do u a favor and ur dictating? how can u treat me like u dont care about me one way or the other and then ask me 4 something?
i feel like  chump
and now im thinking about this
what a chump i am