Dinner with h

So, was dinner with H a good idea? No, it was definitely too soon for us. He only moved out 8 days ago, and where was no good reason for us have try to have a date already. we realized how difficult it is and how emotional. I'm not even emotional when he's not around. Plus he told me a few brutally honest facts which again bring pain to the surface. i thought the OW was just a sext friend who he had  real sex with 3 times, which he still says is true, but she claims to love him and wants to leave her H for my H now that we are separated. They have not even seen each other on person since September. She's clearly crazy, but my H has obviously been feeding her emotional needs. It may have been a game to him, to keep the sext messages  coming, but clearly she was more Emotionally invested. So, now he has hurt two people. I get more disgusted the more I think about it.  more than two people if you count our innocent kids! What the hell is wrong with these cheating bastards!!!!!