Detachment

I feel that I have started to detach emotionally from my husband , I have been intentionally withdrawing from conversation or even acknowledgement of his presence at least most of the time. I think I have arrived at where my anger is there but I feel like he isn't worth the energy. He really isn't worth anything to me . I do stay cordial for the sake of our child . This in house seperation has forced me to face strong feelings, insecurities , strong realities and I think that has helped my mind to adjust to this chaos as much as it can at this point. To me , my husband is a failure of a man , a failure of a husband . I don't respect him. He definitely disrepsected me by blind sighting me with this divorce. Well he got what he wanted , other then anger and disgust,  I don't feel anything for him. I will tell him to move out once the divorce is stamped and complete . He may move sooner since I am sure he feels the chill in the air now. If he doesn't move sooner he sure will beCause I will tell him that it's time To go. The other week I asked him " your ok wih just leaving 23 years together huh? " his answer was " it's called moving on " . yup , he said that . So , if he thinks he is staying after the divorce to pay off his truck loan ,  no way ... Guess if he asks me why I will tell him " it's called moving on. " . Although painful , hearing all of his cold words and living with him and seeing him really has taught me that he is definitely not who I thought he was When we were married. it helps me move forward. Not fun but one day at a time .