dealing with other people in public

When I go out after work, I usually go to the same places. The same two places to be precise.


I go to the market down in Malibu for snacks or supplies.


Then on Sunday after laundry (very much a routine guy) I go to the Starbucks in Trancas.


It kind of feels like the cashiers or the baristas always take a swipe at me. I am really a peaceable guy.


I used to like going out and enjoying the time shopping. Now I just want to get what I am there for and make an exit.


My mind went to the notion of invisible disabilities today.


I don't get it. But I get that not everyone is the same so you kind of just have to deal with it. Rise above it


and just offer good spirit for me and them...?


I need to start asking for receipts because, for who I am, this might be the best way to handle it. God I must


sound like such a twerp LOL but seriously I have had people not give me the receipt before and was overcharged.


So, it's Sunday and I go to my Dad's house now. I see my stepmother who just got out of the hospital.


Oh god haha you guys get such an earful of me - and know me about more than most. Thanks for reading my 'stuff.'



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iwontbackdown1
iwontbackdown1

You're trying to figure out a way of handling the Starbuck situation. Personally, I always ask for a receipt...I sometimes get the "look" from the cashier, but who gives a shit. It's your money for a product and service.
I hope your Stepmother will be on the mend.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

Big squishy hug sweetie..... There are people who are angry no doubt about it ... I think a lot of the time though it comes from within them not from other people.... I agree that it might be a good idea to get a receipt....xo
beckyp
beckyp

Yeah, you just never know why people are not friendly. I just try to be nice if I can. I don't usually get receipts for small items, but it's probably a good idea to do so in case someone overcharges me. Good idea, Mark.
malibumark
malibumark

thanks guys!! you rock!! XXOOO