Dealing with infertility-head on

I am not broken up, over not having children.I am, more at a stage that I am accepting  that I have an issues. And I need to fix them.....In order to have children....of my own.
I am more puzzled on....why and when..will parenthood happen for me.
It's like ,going on a journey and preparing for it,rather than looking at myself....like as if ...somethings is wrong with me.Infertility is not a disease that you caught and it, doesn't affects everyone...
Infertility to me ....is something that just happens... it's not, something that you should ignore or avoid....it's something that can affect anybody..... at any given time.
Being aware..that... they are some insensitive,rude,careless folks that may not ever have to deal with infertility.... is just half the battle.
It takes alot to get over infertility and some wounds may not ever heal...losing a love one, can not, ever be easy...it's something that you have to deal with at some point...Whether you deal with your infertility..now or later and how you deal with it...it's all up to you.