Cottage... Had a Ball!!

This pic is from my wed. night cottage visit. I am the one in the white sun glasses. This was taken at 1:00 a.m. . We ate, drank ( not too much ), talked, laughed and were very.... merry!!! I had such a great time!!! I’ll post a few more pics over the next few days. This little excursion was so... good for me. I really needed the company and change of scenery. My girlfriend has been away and hubby is working the farmer shift ( sun up til sun down ). In the last four weeks, I’ve probably seen him for maybe ...12 hours. This will probably continue for at least the next two weeks.I finally made a decision regarding the cruise in march. I went yesterday and put down the deposit. I read about and know way too many people that are passing away far too young, thirties, forties ... I’m in my early fifties. We always say I’ll do it sometime, maybe next year.... there may not be a later!!!I see my pdoc on Tuesday. I have not seen him since may due to his serious accident. I did have one session in between with a pdoc that was filling in. I don’t have much new to tell him. I’m the same ole, same ole, some days good, some days not. I’ll only be there for abut 15 minutes, he really only does the med part anyway not much use in the discussion areas. He leaves that up to my counsellor. Then he meets with them. I meet with a new counsellor on sept 10 as my old one is going part time. Should be interesting.Anyway, i’m feeling okay, not great but not down so I have nothing to complain about. I’m going to sign off now. I wish you all a great long weekend. Debbie

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You look so happy in that picture. It\'s always good to get together with friends.
You sure won\'t see hubby much in the coming weeks! I hope this doesn\'t get you down too much.
How\'s the house selling business going? Haven\'t heard you mention that for awhile.
You will have a great time on your cruise, I\'m glad you are going. You are so right about not putting things off. if it is possible do all you can now!!
I hope you have a fun holiday weekend.
Take care,
hugs Cathy
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I\'m so glad your going to do the cruise. Your so right about the uncertainty of life and it\'s not just death that can take away those future plans. We had figured to spend summers and maybe some time in the winter getting out and touring Alaska, it is 1/5 the size of the rest of the U.S. and we\'ve seen a lot driving by on the highway but wanted to really play tourist. Just needed a couple more years to get our land paid off, now with Neal\'s alzheimers we don\'t know if he has a couple more years but even if he does who knows how much awareness he\'ll still have. Do it now when you can and store up those memories. Hugs and loves
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i am happy that you had fun with your friends. i am sure you will have a blast on your trip. have a great weekend. hugs ..love marie
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What a cute picture of you and your friends. It is good for us all to get out for a fun night. We will be moving in 3 days so I have been busy today packing and had a Yard Sale to see what I could get rid of . I sold alot of my books, small chest of drawers, 2 book cases. I\'m very tired and it was very HOT today. I will be glad when this week is behind me. We will love our new home. I have alot of friends in the area I lived ther for 30+years. Enjoy your cruise. Take care . Big Hugs Suzanne
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CHEERS!! I am glad you had a get-away. THat always makes me feel so much better....I think that is one of the first things I am going to do, if winter hasn\'t hit yet, or even if it has (I\'ll stay in a cheap motel) and go ON VACATION!! I like to camp, so hopefully, it will be when I still can. :)

I hate getting the counseling/therapy/etc rug pulled out from under me....I hope you still have good people to work with...it\'s not so bad, then. Take care, Eve
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PS -- I meant, one of the first things I am going to do, if/when I get that darn SSD/SSI. :)
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I am so glad you had fun. You look really happy.