Confusion of who is wo on photoes
Hi fans.. This week I have been getting mesages from some DS members thinking I am the femail on the photo on my profile at the top. I do not feel ofended by it as it is not always easy to know who is who when there are more than one person on a photo. DS sfaff dont seam to alow for this by letting members give some idea as to who is who below the photo. For example. Inmy case I could put 2 things. One is (This is my dear mum & me) Two is (Im the guy in this photo with my dear mum. On te other hand this is one reason why I used to send requests for folk to read my profile & gernals when I would send hugs & or friend requests. One member sent me a nasty coment on it. Hence why I dont do it now butsince not doing it It is leaving some folk thinking Im the woman on the photo. So how do i win>?. Thoes of you who have read my other jernals & profile & or have chated live with me will clearly know or may know it. I dont know how to contact DS staff on here so could some one do me a favour & pass the word to them even about the idea of being able to put who is who below photoes MAIN ONES on our profiles please? Thank you. This is just me also bringing some things to your atension. Im not saying it is onl happening to me. I know my profile is long & I have already said on another jernal why that is so. Please dont coment on it bein long again if you do not mind. No ofence meant. If such folk would read the jernals i have hwere other DS members have given good positive coments on it then they ma have a better picture of one reason for it being long. I have put that it can be read so mutc at a time & notes taken to remind you were you last read it to. Sorry but Im not going to change it. Take care. Love & hugs to you all
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Keep doing what your doin Graham, im sorry to hear that you get negative messages friend. This site is much more people friendly than most sites ! so i hope you don\'t get disheartened. Some people are feeling down and not themselves and theres always 1 in any comunity that is an idiot. t/c Michael
Unfortunately, no matter where you go you will find people who are mean or negative. It\'s unfortunate but it\'s a fact. Second, a lot of people don\'t read...because if they did they would see on your profile near the top to the right of the profile that you have your gender as male....so their shouldn\'t be any reason for them to think of you as otherwise if they just looked. Most people here are great though, there\'s just always gonna be some who aren\'t no matter where you go. ***HUGS*** Take care.
Your doing great..and yes I was one of them that thought u were female too sorry...I have got myself straight now lol..Hope you have a great weekend...Love and Hugz Vic
Graham is your name? Ok I don\'r see what it matters which person you are in picture. It is sweet you put your picture on there with your beloved Mom! It makes sense to me. Some fols complain about strange things. Me I have had grief, and pain in my heart. Loosing both of my boys about broke me! I also ballled breast cancer in 2005. I am disabled with arthritis, fybromyalgia, and 3 herniated disks in my neck. SO I DO NOT SWEAT THE SMALL THINGS!!!!!! Not mine or yours. You just keep up doing waht you are. Make your self better! Love, and Prayers, Peggy
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