Cntacting folk new on to & not new back on to DS
Hi. I have comented on my last profile about lack of comunication on DS to e random memebers ect. One member replied saying I could try reading folks profiles & then maybe see if they have any thing t all in comon with me. When it comes down to it wwee all do. We arre human with human feelings ect weaknesses & so on. But that said. I do contact folk on here. I welcome new folk And eriginal folk back on to DS when I see them. As isaid ion a past jurnal I do not let my contact with rthem depend on if they have any thing in comon ect with me or not. We never know the future. This is waht I say to new folk. Ho and a big worm welcome to what moste folk on here even me wouldcall & see as being the DS family. You are now one of us if you want to be.. Bla Bla Bla. Take care.. Graham from Scotland If I am not sure if some one is new or not then I say If you are new to here then A veery big warm welcome to BLBLA BLA. Take care . Graham from Scotland. If its some one who I know is an eriginal then I say Welcome back. Long time no see. How are you?. Bla Bla Bla.. Take care.. Graham. I replie when & as soon as I can to any one who contacts me new or not. I have been joining more suport groups relvent to me. But also relevent to my epileptic friend Mike. One that aplies to him is the Epilepsy Group. I have left a coment on there about him & me as his carer. I feel that it is & would be a good thing for groups to have or invite carers on to them as they have to deal with the disabilitys ect of the person who has suffered or is suffering from what ever it is.. I do not suffer from Epilepsy but that is nor relevent & does not mean I should not & can not be part of a group such as the epilepsy one. Maybe there should be a group set up on here for carers of folk with alld is abilities ect. A bit like an on line carers suport group. even where carers can suport carers ect. People who help others in any way some times need help too.. Not always or juts from relevent departments. Who knows better than a carer about what is needed ect even for the person needing the care ect?. Experience is a wonderful & a best teacher. Like riding a bicke . Once learned never forgoten most of the time. This is my third jurnal today.Some of us get help ect from families but some of us are not that lucky . I am one of the m who dont get help even from relevent departments who try to dige doing so at all costs ect giving all invalid excuses ect. My epileptic friend does give me morall suport & I do feel good doing what I do for him.so in thease small ways I get soemthing back. I do not look for repayments as its not about that. Thank you all & take real good care .. Graham from Scotland
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Graham, It is good that I am getting jurnal entries back on my e-mail. I tried to chat yesterday but you must have been busy. I wish you well
Hi.. .No I was not too busiy. I got your chat request. I accepted it. The usual thigs that happen next did so. Then all I got was that you were trying to conect. Then a bit later it said that you were still trying to. I waited for a relevent lenth of time nothing happened so I just cancled it . I have previously reported it to the DS help team . They said they are adding more tools on here to solve that problem & improve the chat system too.. Take care my friend but keep on trying . That one other way to see if &nwhen it will work.. ..Graham From Scotland
I try to read everyone\'s journals, all my comments, hugs and messages. Somedays. I admit I have to rush through to get done. I keel crazy hours, and often cannot sleep. You are a person who has a lot of things to offer. I find you to be intelligent, and I see you working hard to build your life into something diffrent. My losses are diffrent in ways, but in some way all loss is loss. I hope to contimue to share words back and forth with you. There are times when I am not sure what to say. I do not like to give advice because I am still so caught in my grief. I do want to support you and help ig I can. I am here and I want ti be your friend, I want you to feel you can tell me what you feel. I care about you, I care about what is going on with you. I am here, remember that I love you and I try to let you know it, Love Peggy
Yes Pegy.. I do understand what you are saying & yes I do see you want to help not just me maybe even more than you do. Maybe one day you will & will be able to. but for now you are doing only what you can & that is all that can be expected of any one at any time with any thing. You are my friend . That is a bug plus alone. A good friend to me & Im sure to others. You may have heared the saying reading between the lines. My dear mum used to say it & I used to ask her what it meant. There are many ways to do it & it does not just mean reading some thing out of a witten thing some one is saying to some one else. I have got other gifts like the gift of prosesy .as you know that it is the Bible term for what some of us call ESP Extra sencial preception. Or Second sight,. I have never done corses on Psycology but I know how to use the basic methods of it. I have done the intro to counseling & again it has & still does come in handy. I my self have been a client of being counseled I mean I my self have had to go for it due to past family & other isssues in my live . It has helped partly because I have wanted it to . I have played my part in making it & believing that it would. but back to your coment about helping me. Please do not worry. I know who are not even trying to help any one let alone me. You are not amung that BIG list & I also mean in the offf line world we alllive in, Yes I hope one day some how soon you & I can have a 2 way chat ect. Your a good person. I picked that up from the start & it has been confirmed since.. Take care .. Love & prayers from Your life time friend Graham from Scotland.