Church

They use me here to do most services. The other priests don’t have a regular schedule and they very often get sick. Today I am doing a new service, a memorial at the gravesite of a parishioner. I hope it goes ok. They keep asking me if I could do things and I keep saying yes. They give me lots of time to rest in between which is good. Things are good. I suppose because i keep available for them, that is why they allow me to take mornings off now and then.

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Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

I hope that the service goes well sweetie

Big hug of support...xo
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Jan, lately I’ve been thinking about mortality. I googled my mom’s friends yesterday only to find they too have passed. It amazes me but I’m understanding that ‘death happens.’ Today I conducted a couple of memorials at the graveyard here today. It felt powerful and an honor. People were gathered and respectful and crying. Again, it’s a poignant honor. All of us gathered together to honor a person and also in a way how we each will be there one day.
arfie
arfie

embracing my mortality gives me a deeper appreciation for life. the older i get, the more opportunities i have to embrace my mortality.

learning to use, "no." as a complete sentence gives me more time to appreciate.
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Arfie.
I write so much about things like this, to not feel alone and yet I know I’m not alone. To be loved and yet I know I am loved. I think it’s human nature in the sense of that old adage ‘the only thing that makes life and our disconnection bearable is each other.’
arfie
arfie

it's the first i've heard that adage, but i'll buy it.

yes, you write a good bit about stuff like this. i hope you are not saying that like it is a bad thing.

keep on keeping on. you've only just begun.

you got one of my favorite catholic gospel tunes stuck in my head. thank you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bL5bT_Ezeq8
malibumark
malibumark

thanks Arfie!
gr8ful1
gr8ful1

Sounds like a great balance. Also, you must be doing a great job for them to give you so many duties. That's awesome!
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Susan!!