change of life
Life can lead you to places you just never expect. After my parents died I moved in with my brother, I didn't have a choice. After 8 years he announced he was moving to Florida with his girlfriend. I didn't want to go with him so I moved in with a friend in NH. Things didn't work out up there so another friend took me in VA. I've been here 8 years. Things are changing again. He is leaving his job. Getting a separation package. So he'd take some time from work and that's it. Today he through a bombshell. They are thinking of moving, to Vancouver British Columbia of all places. I'd visited Toronto several times. Even entertained moving there. But moving there to live is not an easy task, let alone finding work.
I don't know what my next step is. I'm scared and confused.
I don't know what my next step is. I'm scared and confused.
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Dear Lily, sending prayers, hugs, and my best well wishes. you\'ll always have my support, our dear friend. wishing you plenty of peace, especially during these times. i know it\'s a very emotional time, as you all go through some changes. i hope that all will work out well, and that maybe your friend, and her family, and you won\'t have to relocate. i know they consider you family to them. i know you all will stick together, no matter where the future, and roads lead you, things are gonna be ok. i know you are worried right now, but i want to send some gentle comforting hugs, to let you know, you all are in our prayers, and i\'m here, anytime you need too talk. :)
Thinking of you, hugs
Okay, I hope you will be at peace with your decision. It is hard to live with others, and then moving to a different area, will be hard too. I don\'t know what to say, except that whatever decision comes, I hope it works for you too. It is hard to be out on your own, even facing being homeless. You have had a home and I know your stress level must be soaring right now. Just know that I wish you the best. I also know that I was told that when I chose to leave where I was staying and it didn\'t help me out at all. I don\'t know what I was looking for when I journaled mine, but nothing helped me out at that time. Hugs
That\'s a really big decision up ahead. Praying that everything will work out. Hugs.