Can you find the love of your life twice? Is it possible.

Smokey was the love of my life and my soul mate. 
Is it possible to find the love of my life again?  I want your input.   This afternoon I spent my time crying and missing Smokey greatly.  I am doubting everything now including finding another love of my own, my soul mate or the love of my life.  Can a person ever be that lucky to find it twice in one's life time?  If not, do I give up on it?  What are my choices?  I know Dave is not the love of my life or my soul mate.  We don't click that way.  Dave is my rebound from the devastating loss of Smokey who was my true love.  I still need a crutch to lean on at the moment.  I am not over Smokey.  Will I ever heal from my own loss?  Is it possible?  I know Smokey and I talked about it all the time.  I told Smokey I would never find anyone after him.  This is when Smokey got mad at me and told me he wanted me to be happy with another man. I agreed but in my heart I knew the answer would be no.  Was Smokey right?  Is there someone else out there for me that I have not met yet?  Is it truly possible?
I ask this question all the time to myself.
What does everyone else thing or know from real experience?
Diane B.