calming

I've decided to let a few days go without talking to mapa. I would of loved it had they called to see if I was okay after our little "talk" but it hasn't happened. Sometimes I wonder if they remember they have 5 kids and not 2 or 3. That seems to be how it is. For now.
I will never understand the line that I see that they have crossed. Well, not just them but other famiy members. Don't get me wrong. I truly love exass family. I had decided no contact with them was just as healthy for me as no contact with the exass. They make excuses for his behavior which I don't. My sons don't. His one daughter doesn't. You can't overlook all he jhas down with a simple "he is what he is and won't change". Doesn't work in my book.
Today I work and I will be setting down some rules that I hope they will follow. If ANYONE comes in looking for me or phone calls, NO info of any kind is to be volunteered. Whether it be my work schedule, my phone number (he still has), My lifestyle or anything! Wish me luck.