Burned out

Its been a long time since I have put anything down about my feelings and Dad.  We are back to him wanting to go to Animas and moving back there.  He had a meeting with the insurance lady last week and made it sound like he could do everything on his own.  Which could hurt us, if they decide not to keep helping with his care. 
He told them he was walking at Therapy and doing everything for himself.  None of it is true, he has improved with some things, but still doesn't have a strong core, which puts him at risk for falling.  He transferred himself and slipped between the bed and chair.  If I hadn't been there to help, not sure what would have happened and how bad he would of been hurt. 
 
I have struggled with being burned out, I just don't want the battle over going to Animas and him thinking he can do everything he once could.  I find reasons not to go visit, like today.  Its snowing and I don't want to drive in the weather.  Just wish this was easier on everyone.
Tam has been helping more with Dad.  She did tell him he couldn't live on his own in Animas.  He still requires to much help and there are no services there to make it work.  Not sure her heard her, it just upset him.