blue-cy, I'm home!
i was struggling with Blue this morning.. he was needing too much.
everytime i came on the computer he would wail - he doesn't like it
when I am at the computer - i think because i enjoy it so much -
and that makes him upset maybe?
things are going ok. i need to get out of the house.
blue is teaching me -i can see how a parent can get so frustrated with their child at times
because they don't understand something or pull their own weight at times
and yet also feel such pride and love for them.
my mind has been splitting this morning - and i've been feeling mighty needy as well...
it's like i see it and also feel hated for it - the way i am going to deal with it is
to remind myself that I need to be 'self responsible' - and in doing so - I won't be powerless or
feel powerless - but instead I will take command of it.
peace and keep having a good day!!
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He's a little bugger trying to control you....haha....Daddy... Pay attention to me!!…..smile...... Maybe give him a treat when you're going on and he'll start to equate your going on the computer with getting a treat!!… Good things happen when you go on the computer ya know.... haha
Another idea is to play with him before going on... It will tire him as well then he'll equate another good thing with going on the computer....xo
these are some that they play with alone
https://www.amazon.ca/s?k=pop+and+play+cat+toy&crid=3IL6PZZ8HB77T&sprefix=cats+toys+to+play+%2Caps%2C218&ref=nb_sb_ss_i_1_18
thanks Jan!! Great ideas!!! I just went for a walk. Blue is under the bed because I used the vacuum cleaner! haha
And that scares him. So I went for a walk and will check out the link that you suggested!! thanks!!! xxx
Blue-cy haha!
My little Bella girl cat is also very needy. We’ve recently moved upstairs and I now have tons of windows in all directions Ave she runs to each one when she sees critters outside.
She has lots of toys. She has collections of stick/string dangly toys and age wraps them around herself like a feather boa and brings them to me to play!!! It’s age - I think cats mellow out as they get older. But I try to spend plenty of attention time for her. And yes - they hate when you’re on the computer!!!