Bitterness, anger and resentment really hurt us in the end.

Bitterness, anger and resentment really hurt us in the end.  When we hold onto these things, it hurts and damages us.  I had to deal with all these things in the last couple of days.
I was angry, resentful and bitter towards:
1.  My brother Don:  He has Asperger's Syndrome and was always the center of attention growing up.  I was the daughter in the middle who was overlooked.  We had a baby brother but mom was never worried about him either.  Its not his fault.
2.  My mom:  she always focused the attention towards Don.   At the time we never heard of Asperger's Syndrome so its not her fault.
3.  God:  for taking my Smokey away and for giving me a brother who has Asperger's Syndrome
4.  Gary, my ex-husband:  I will only say this he has Bi Polar Disorder and is an alcoholic and was bad with money to say the least.  All  these things made me angry, bitter and resentful towards him.  He is nuts and a drunk to boot.  
5.  Me:  for being angry, resentful and bitter towards the above.
I forgive everyone including myself.  Its not an easy thing to do but it is liberating and freeing to my very soul.  I am still working on this.  I am a work in progress but have come a very long way in my life to get to this point.
All the best to everyone.