Bio Mom and Health
Well, Bio Mom got out of rehab and is all proud of herself and wanting to brag it up. Sent a msg to tell Zack that she "loved and misses him", not 1 single question about how he is doing, health or school or behavior or anything else. When told that he has his best grades of any year, she simply replied "okay". So apparently she is still the same selfish, self centered B*tch that she has always been, even without the drugs. Good thing she bragged about finding a job, because I think is past time she started paying some child support. 5 years and not 1 dime, for the first 7 months he was with my son, she was even stealing his disability checks from Social Security and they haven't made her pay that back either. She has only visited 1 time as well, rarely calls or messages. For over a year we didn't even know where she was. Strung out somewhere in Cali.
So, I have begun taking the steps to get my health back on track. I had skipped my yearly check ups due to the COVID 19, but now I've had the vaccine and getting back with my Drs. to get my stress test and colonoscopy done, mammograms and all that fun stuff. Time to get Zack in to see the Dentist, and get him the HPV vaccine. Next year he has another colonoscopy, they had to start them this young because of the family history and his Daddy being so young (only 27). It's scary.
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"Bio-mom" being your ? ? ? Daughter-in-law?
I'm having a hard time forgiving my DIL. There is a part of me that blames me for my son's death, as well as her own. At best, she was far more problem than solution in my own perspective. Ditto for her highly dysfunctional family which has used her death and the orphanhood of her 3 children as an entitlement opportunity.
Still. . . These children have a hard enough row to hoe without being told their DNA is half trash.
Good luck with the doctor reconnects. I've been skipping my annual checkups since 1995. I'm ever so grateful Hubby has been handling the pediatric maskites during this hell year. I still can't look a maskite in the eye. Can't read their lips, either.
Good Morning Arfie, No she's not my DIL, my son was never stupid enough to marry her. She' just the gal he decided he was "in love with" @ 17. She dumped him while she was pregnant, but man she sure popped back up fast enough looking for that child support check after Zack was born. DNA testing was done, although to look there's no denying who this kids father is, she was just an incubator for a clone. LOL
I've not had any contact with her extended family, only her mother. And we've had kind of a rocky relationship, but I don't see her retiring from Truck driving to raise this or the girls other 2 boys (who are either with their addict father or with the state now), and she's not helping any with this one. She doesn't even msg him unless he msg her first. I send her his grades every quarter.
I've made arrangements for Zack to go to live with my sons last girlfriend (and mother of his youngest son), if anything happens to me. She's a very good and involved Mom, and is always in contact with myself and Zack . She's drug free and I see her remaining that way.
She's a hard worker and stable.