BFN and Thanks

As expected, RE confirmed the BFN yesterday. I almost cancelled my appt since I really didn't want to spend my Saturday morning going to the clinic to find out what I already knew. I meet with RE this Friday to discuss next steps, etc. At this point, I'm sure we'll just transfer the last 2 totsicles we have and hope for the best. If that fails, we'll need to re-evaluate everything. I am sad, disappointed, angry....you know the drill and the emotions. I guess I don't have much to say, just really wanted to write a quick journal with an update (although you all knew) and mostly, to thank you all for the support, the hugs, the notes, messages, etc. It's made the world of difference to grieve this knowing I have your support, and I am grateful beyond words. Sending love to all xoxoxo

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alanabanana
alanabanana

I\'m so sorry. I wish you could see your RE before Friday. That wait in between the bfn and the next plan is always so hard. I am sending you strength during this time. Were you on prednisone or baby asprin on this cycle? Just a thought that it couldn\'t hurt to try. I\'m sending you a big hug.
Mag333
Mag333

So sorry again. I\'ve had 3 ivf bfns and three iui bfns. So glad you have two totsicles. Wishing you the best.
SoMuchHoping
SoMuchHoping

Hugging you with my mind and heart. I do like the term \"totsicles\" :)))
whimsicalfool
whimsicalfool

Hope you can get some answers on Friday! Thinking of you!
jewelzsi
jewelzsi

So Sorry! {{{{{HUGS}}}}
Jat092311
Jat092311

I\'m so sorry {HUGS}
Andi60857
Andi60857

I\'m so sorry! Hugs to you!
Kelly0713
Kelly0713

I am sorry honey!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Hugs to you! I\'m so sorry!
RoxyD
RoxyD

I\'m so sorry. I\'m just going to hope that they kept the best for last and that your next transfert will bring you your BFP.
Try to treat yourself to something good.
Hugs.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I\'m so very sorry. I agree with Alana, maybe you could try different meds this cycle.
Nedico
Nedico

Lots of love, and hope for you xxxx
AlicatG
AlicatG

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you will be extra kind to yourselves during this time.
Megs525
Megs525

So very, very sorry! Hugs!
CaliCutie81
CaliCutie81

Sending lots of hugs, prayers and love your way. ((HUGS))