Being With A Man That Teaches- Joseph
Joseph is pretty much the best boyfriend I have had so far..... He is so practical, caring, loving, VERY SUPPORTIVE, sexually healthy (meaning he doesnt have sex JUST to cum, he thinks more about me and holds off as well as makes me feel wanted afterwards and holds me till I choose to leave :) ), structured with his feelings and his life, teaches me what I need to learn in situations (I am very stubborn and sometimes dont learn the right lesson from my situation which hurts me later) and the list goes on and on and on AND ON AND ON :) I have been with men that are not fully together and always have a problem. They carry these problems everyday with them, they involve me somehow and it becomes my fault they have issues and never want to deal with them because they are stubborn as well. All I ever learned from these men is NOT TO BE WITH THEM LOL! With Joseph it is a joyous lesson and the understanding is comprehensive instead of all over the place. Its great when you have a partner that can be so clear in thought and can direct you to where you need to be without being pushy and aggressive and even violent. Joseph is a great partner to have and I am greatful to have such an understanding and thoughtful man like him :)
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Hey girl
I love your new journal about Joseph its so encouraging to hear about your relationship. It sounds like youre finally in a genuine healthy relationship. I hope that realize that you have made a total transformation with your life decisions and yourself as of today. You have realized from your past experiences where you dont want to be and where you are to be now which is happy. Its great that you have a man who genuinely compliments you as a partner. I hope to have that one day in my future with someone who will mesh well with me in every level of a relationship and a friendship which is important. Like you I have dated and was once involved with guys that were very selfish, stubborn and blame the issues on me. I now know that its where I dont want to ever be with a man whos not complimentarily. I thank those guys as a lesson to what I dont need or ever want again.
The part where is caring for you is wonderful he shows you that he is truly a partner. A relationship is a partnership which is what people forget with compromise. The part you mention and say this He is so practical, caring, loving, VERY SUPPORTIVE, sexually healthy (meaning he doesnt have sex JUST to cum, he thinks more about me and holds off as well as makes me feel wanted afterwards and holds me till I choose to leave :) ), That is pure intimacy someone who cares about your wants, needs and as well satisfaction
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Christa
Its great 2 hear you found a man who values your beauty & self-worth I like the part you stated,\"Its great when you have a partner that can be so clear in thought and can direct you to where you need to be without being pushy and aggressive and even violent.\" and that\'s so true, i defintiely see you growing in love and emotionally you are finally allowed yourself to be who you are with Joesph & he cares alot about you and wants you to heal babygurl...so enjoy your relationship with him & dont ever take him 4 granted. Besides, you have 2 answer 2 yourself in the long run.
Glad 2 be your buddy, Have a good day!