Being green
My therapist suggested today when I was telling her about my failing, she offered the perspective that "Maybe that is just one of your quirks and not a tragedy "... now later today.. it has finally sunk in. I am so grateful. It's a really useful idea.
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some times being sensitive to what you think you've done to another, in acutality has happened to you. You, maybe? This has happened to me, I've felt slited...have you been in a situation where maybe you felt so strongly because of how the person who didn't 'name you' made you feel? What matters is that you responded and didn't just ignor Annette....and acknowledged the other gal at the register....people don't do that a lot these days....having worked in retail, I think about these men and woman who put their lives on the line each day, despite a plastic barrior.
I think just to be acknowledge in any kind way is Just Fine, a Hi, a Wave.....
You're a good man Mark, kind and devoted to your family and just trying to find your way in life....one day at a time is good enough :)
Thanks mlr!! Sending good wishes!