Baby steps

Today was a very difficult day, my therapist told me things that I did not want to hear, but I know I needed to hear them. Right now I am completely alienated from my family. We live in the same house, but I'm not allowed to participate in any family activities, nor am I allowed to sleep in a bed.



We may be able to get through this, but my greatest fear is even if we are able to work through this, that there will be a fundamental lack of trust that will keep us from ever having a healthy relationship. 


So basically, my struggle right now is this...is our relationship even worth saving? 

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VunerableOne
VunerableOne

I am sorry but I felt your pain when you stated that you are not allowed to sleep in a bed. Everyone deserves that in life. And aren't all relationships worth saving? I think mine is. I have tried to hold onto that as I deal with the fallout of another set of lies. I am worthy of giving love and receiving it in return. At least I think so.
nhutch84
nhutch84

All relationships are worth saving. It just depends on if one party is willing to listen and be there, and if the other side is willing to try. I am not saying that to be one sided, but all parties should try to fix a relationship. Is it worth it to you is the bigger question?