you should not get really down on yourself, i know the same feeling, i seem to wach tv and just chill in my room, thats my life too. stay strong, sorry things are not ging the best, remember, if i can help, ask away. chat to me. xxx
I don\'t know anymore. My life is a mess. Its worthless. I am always going to be just me myself, noone else. Hardly have any friends don\'t do fuck all. All I have is Holly to keep me going, I know it sounds so lame but its true. I have my family, buts its still not the same as having friends. I can\'t change though, this is it for me, I don\'t see how anything can get better =/ sorry for being so ungreatful and selfish =/
you know i dont have friend either, i just have my family, but just spend a lot of time on my own, wish you woul come on more, love to chat to you, hate that your so alone, im you friend and i feel we are in vry similar positions. you can really use this springboard to get on in life, you can in time really get out there and make friends, remember im always here for you, we need to ressurect our bingo wings song. lol xxxx
Thanks for ur help :) (lol the bingo wings:)) I wish things would change. I am scared that I really am suffering from Depression =/ I\'ve said in the past the usual \"oh I feel soo depressed\" but like I doubt I\'ve actually put much thought into what it actually means. But I have been looking things up about it on the internet and I have to say that unfortunately for me, I do tick a few of the boxes there in the list =/ I don\'t really know what to do now I really don\'t
well i really think, you have to see a doctor and tell hom whats going on. i think also through that you can do counselling too, i do that. not saying you have issues BUT there maybe underlining issues to ow you feel, you dont know how much i can really see similarities, honestly im lost at the moment but im just taking it a bit at a time, you know you have to believe, there us help out there and im wth you 100% all the way. xxx
I want to do something but I\'m scared to see a Doctor because I just don\'t have a clue what I\'d say. I mean really, whats my problem. There are hundreds of people out there far worse than me =/ How are you coping with ur counselling? Can\'t be an easy thing at all :(
forget the 100\'s of people, you have stuff going on, I think you should sit down and write whats wrong and how you are eeling, you can try it on me, like bonuce ideas and what your thinking, with counsellingits hard but it helps me to get to the root of stuff, like i have told you, i have no friends, we talk about that alot. i think it will help you too. plus its free too, its like a local thing for young tennagers and adults. its hard that sometimes with counsellors, they keep leaving, mine might leave at Easter but thats sods law, you can do it, i have faith in you. im with you on this, pushing if need be. xxx
Thank u *hugs* I will think about going to see one anyway. Would probably be a good idea. It\'s weird now I just prefer to spend time with my horse away from everyone but there are people up there who I get along with, but like not enough to ask them out for a coffee or something, so they aren\'t really a friend, if you know what I mean. I never really go out much other than that.
I have like one friend David, but to be honest 9/10 times I can\'t even be arsed with him. We argue so much too because we just don\'t agree on the same things anymore, don\'t know whats happened.
I went on a night out a few weeks back with him and some of his friends but like hardly spoke a word to any of them, just so quiet I hate being so shy but that is the way I have always been just feels like its so much worse as I\'ve got older. Thought as you grow older you open up a bit more with others! Dunno whats happened to me
I really kow how you feel, I hve shy all my life but atleast when I was younger I would take more of a chance on stuff. i know what you mean about trying to get friends, i think as you begin to open up and even get more help or get better, you will have more confidence. yeah that doesnt sound good at all arguing and that. i always want to spend time alone, ive literally cut myself off from the world, i nevergo out, except for my counselling. i think you just cant give up, keep looking at was to get out, even stuff like joining groups and meeting people that way. xxxx
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you should not get really down on yourself, i know the same feeling, i seem to wach tv and just chill in my room, thats my life too. stay strong, sorry things are not ging the best, remember, if i can help, ask away. chat to me. xxx
I don\'t know anymore. My life is a mess. Its worthless. I am always going to be just me myself, noone else. Hardly have any friends don\'t do fuck all. All I have is Holly to keep me going, I know it sounds so lame but its true. I have my family, buts its still not the same as having friends. I can\'t change though, this is it for me, I don\'t see how anything can get better =/ sorry for being so ungreatful and selfish =/
you know i dont have friend either, i just have my family, but just spend a lot of time on my own, wish you woul come on more, love to chat to you, hate that your so alone, im you friend and i feel we are in vry similar positions. you can really use this springboard to get on in life, you can in time really get out there and make friends, remember im always here for you, we need to ressurect our bingo wings song. lol xxxx
Thanks for ur help :) (lol the bingo wings:)) I wish things would change. I am scared that I really am suffering from Depression =/ I\'ve said in the past the usual \"oh I feel soo depressed\" but like I doubt I\'ve actually put much thought into what it actually means. But I have been looking things up about it on the internet and I have to say that unfortunately for me, I do tick a few of the boxes there in the list =/ I don\'t really know what to do now I really don\'t
well i really think, you have to see a doctor and tell hom whats going on. i think also through that you can do counselling too, i do that. not saying you have issues BUT there maybe underlining issues to ow you feel, you dont know how much i can really see similarities, honestly im lost at the moment but im just taking it a bit at a time, you know you have to believe, there us help out there and im wth you 100% all the way. xxx
I want to do something but I\'m scared to see a Doctor because I just don\'t have a clue what I\'d say. I mean really, whats my problem. There are hundreds of people out there far worse than me =/ How are you coping with ur counselling? Can\'t be an easy thing at all :(
forget the 100\'s of people, you have stuff going on, I think you should sit down and write whats wrong and how you are eeling, you can try it on me, like bonuce ideas and what your thinking, with counsellingits hard but it helps me to get to the root of stuff, like i have told you, i have no friends, we talk about that alot. i think it will help you too. plus its free too, its like a local thing for young tennagers and adults. its hard that sometimes with counsellors, they keep leaving, mine might leave at Easter but thats sods law, you can do it, i have faith in you. im with you on this, pushing if need be. xxx
Thank u *hugs* I will think about going to see one anyway. Would probably be a good idea. It\'s weird now I just prefer to spend time with my horse away from everyone but there are people up there who I get along with, but like not enough to ask them out for a coffee or something, so they aren\'t really a friend, if you know what I mean. I never really go out much other than that.
I have like one friend David, but to be honest 9/10 times I can\'t even be arsed with him. We argue so much too because we just don\'t agree on the same things anymore, don\'t know whats happened.
I went on a night out a few weeks back with him and some of his friends but like hardly spoke a word to any of them, just so quiet I hate being so shy but that is the way I have always been just feels like its so much worse as I\'ve got older. Thought as you grow older you open up a bit more with others! Dunno whats happened to me
I really kow how you feel, I hve shy all my life but atleast when I was younger I would take more of a chance on stuff. i know what you mean about trying to get friends, i think as you begin to open up and even get more help or get better, you will have more confidence. yeah that doesnt sound good at all arguing and that. i always want to spend time alone, ive literally cut myself off from the world, i nevergo out, except for my counselling. i think you just cant give up, keep looking at was to get out, even stuff like joining groups and meeting people that way. xxxx