around the 1st of December

told me I had till the end of this month to make up my mind....  what I want to do..  but in the meantime.. he isn’t EVEN TRYING to make things better....  Doesn’t want to get a job cuase it will mess up his unemployment? WTF russ u make 300 a week on that...... and you used to bring home 800 a wk.... and we have to pay in on taxes because of that... GO GET A JOB..... cause then people who are also off.. call him and tell him to come drinking with them.. and the fucker makes up a excuse and GOES DRINKING...  ok then... then leave go get out then In the meantime... he keeps doing this.. and is not showing me that he is changing, and IS PISSED at me for not wanting to sleep with him...  So now.. he just.. like last night left with a friend at 12pm to look at a job..  didn’t hear from him all day.. he calls at 9 and says I am not coming home tonight.. and going deer hunting tomorrow night.. to clean deer and I am staying down there (which I told him to just stay there that night)... So He keeps pulling the going somewhere and just not coming home. Which if he wants to do that.. just get out u know?Monday night I got home at 430... he left at 5... no clue where he was going.... and didn’t come home till 230.... then the next morning of course didn’t get to help me with the girls getting them to daycare and preschool, and I go home at 1200 p.m. to grab the mail and the fucker is STILL IN BED sleeping.. while his daughter is at DAYCARE.... I just don’t see him changing... he is still verbally abusing me.... fighting with me when he doesn’t get his way... he just doesn’t get it.. I told him we both need to go see a counseler... He just isn’t understanding that fine... you want to do this shit... get the hell out and stop putting me through this.. u aren’t making me want to even try in fact ur making it worse... just leave then... u know? U go do your thing.. while I get space, and no stress at home... So last night he said he wasn’t comeing home right? So I wake up at 3 and all of a sudden he is sleeping on the couch/// WTF? I don’t get it....... ? He is playing with my m,ind.. trying to get me to break...  PLUS IN the meantime.. he hasnt threatened to SELL my car.. cause its in his name...not give me child support cause he isnt working right now.. to get out of HIS house...  I mean we have been  married 10 years..