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Well, as I feared, it's over. The love has left the building in her eyes and the attraction left years ago but at least now I can move on knowing its dead and awaiting burial.
i do have to feel a little sorry for her when he moves out of state this summer but oh well. She may be invested in it now but she too will get to feel heartbreak. Why am I such a bastard???  She wants me to be happy and I get a snarky attitude. 
On a brighter note, had dinner with a nice lady tonight. If nothing else, I made a new friend. If it goes further, that's nice too but I still have a lot of work to do fixing myself first. That has to be my priority.