Another week....
Well I made it back home this past weekend. I had a girlfriend who drove in yesterday, my dad is working on her car. It needs some new parts for brakes and rotors. Making sure its driveable and ready for a trip to Tennessee she's planning on in a few weeks. Get to visit for a few days. Took her out a little bit to a huge bookstore, out to eat and a few shops today. Plan on sitting by pool tomorrow and work on our tan lines.
As for crap well the ExN as been trying longer than I thought. If you don't know already there is a seperate mailbox on Facebook and he started a new account and has been sending me msgs for over a month. It's about stalking, yesterday he called 29 times and left about 10 text msgs. He's been leaving more and more voicemails but not really saying anything serious. He did have his son call me and leave a MSG saying it was important that I call his dad back. He left another saying it was over his daughter that something important came up. Anything and everything to try to push buttons and get me to respond. Today's was sending me pics of my mom and siblings asking if I want it. I haven't responded in any way except today. I sent him an email that lacked emotional ties. Just stated that I didn't want to have any further relations with him as friend or anything else. That he needed to stick by his decision and to take care of himself and the kids. He's not responded but continues to send texts and calls. Not sure If he's received it of not. I will have a friend forward the same msg to his fb tomorrow to see if it gets through. His msgs on fb on the fake name tried to call me childish and said it was wrong of me to keep my kids from him. As of he's ever been considered their feelings and stuff before.
Anywho, that's what's going on now. Still no computer. Try to keep up on journals and reply when I can. That's all I can do with my phone. Hope all is well.
As for crap well the ExN as been trying longer than I thought. If you don't know already there is a seperate mailbox on Facebook and he started a new account and has been sending me msgs for over a month. It's about stalking, yesterday he called 29 times and left about 10 text msgs. He's been leaving more and more voicemails but not really saying anything serious. He did have his son call me and leave a MSG saying it was important that I call his dad back. He left another saying it was over his daughter that something important came up. Anything and everything to try to push buttons and get me to respond. Today's was sending me pics of my mom and siblings asking if I want it. I haven't responded in any way except today. I sent him an email that lacked emotional ties. Just stated that I didn't want to have any further relations with him as friend or anything else. That he needed to stick by his decision and to take care of himself and the kids. He's not responded but continues to send texts and calls. Not sure If he's received it of not. I will have a friend forward the same msg to his fb tomorrow to see if it gets through. His msgs on fb on the fake name tried to call me childish and said it was wrong of me to keep my kids from him. As of he's ever been considered their feelings and stuff before.
Anywho, that's what's going on now. Still no computer. Try to keep up on journals and reply when I can. That's all I can do with my phone. Hope all is well.
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Block the fake name on FB and tighten your security there. Also, talk to the police about what you need to get a restraining order. You don\'t have to go through with it, but just having the knowledge will help to empower you.