Another pissed off moment with my brother.
so, do you remember the phone call my brother made about my supposed hanging up on him? Wel it was another journal entry.
Here is the latest phone call. first of all it was at ten pm. This is way past any civil time to call anyone unless it is an emergency so right away I'm not feeling good about the call. Secondly it is my brother so another reason not to be good about the call but I answer it very inquiringly and kinda obviously curious why someone would call so late with an extended, "hee-looo?"
My brother: did you get my message?
Me: what message?
Him: the one I left on your machine.
Me: obviously not. so what do you wnat?
him: I just wondered why you didn't call me back.
Me: Well I didn't get your message, I thought I just told you that. So what was it about.
Him: Why do you always treat me like I'm bugging the shit out of you? I jsut called to see if you got my message.
Me: This is a ridicules reason to call.
Him: -Hangs up on me-
Huh!?, thinking to myself what the fuck, what a hypocrite. So I go listen to his message. here it is.
"Hey its Keith, Um, call me back."
So, again I'm thinking, what the fuck. Did he really only call to ask if I got his message which only siad to call him back? So I call him back.
Me: Hi its me. I'm returning your call. So what did you want to talk to me about?
Him: I don't want to talk to you while you have this attitude.
Me: (well I don't actually remember what I said but it was something about how he hung up and that he was a hypocrite for doing it after getting all stupid about calling me when he only thought I had hung up when I hadn't. Somewhere I said something about how any call at ten pm would be bothering me since calls in a normal time of day bother me.
This next is not part of our conversation just me venting about his phone calls in general-
I've told him over and over I hate phone calls, They hurt my head, the initial ringing, the focused sound in my ear, the trying to pick up their words and only catching 80% of it, it is all a hassle and a bother for me. Any phone call bothers me, it doesn't matter if it is him or someone calling to give me a million dollars. But he seems to think that the bad attitude I have about phone calls is all a bad attitude against him calling me. Even tho I do have a bad attitude against him and I believe rightfully so, it has nothing to do with him calling on the phone if it is a legitimate call, not one of his many stupid ridiculous calls like calling to ask if I had gotten his previous call instead of just calling and telling me what he wants since I had not returned his previous call and most normal people would just think I missed it which obviously I had since I told him so and yet he would not tell me what he called about only wanted to know why I had not returned his call or calling to say he wanted to come by tomorrow and then calling the next day and say he was coming over maybe in a few hours and he would call later to see if I was home then rather than just calling to see if I was home when he was actually ready and wanting to come over and then in the end calling to say he was not going to be able to make it today because something came up or calling to ask me if I knew about something that he had just found out about my sister when he was over there in the last hour which I would have no way to know anything about and then ask me to find out more about it and let him know instead of just finding out more about it himself like anyone else would and not bother other people with his concerns that may or may not be anyone else's business.
I pretty much went off on him cause this was the stupidest most irritating dumb phone call late at night that he has ever made. At this point he hung up on me again.
so I called him back and this time really got into it; cursing (which I hardly ever do) calling him a hypocrite and trying to get him to stop being stupid and tell me what he wanted and when he went on about not wanting all the attitude and crap and how I was treating him lit shit and can't be civil I hung up on him.
I called a few minutes later to ask him again what he had originally called me about and ask him how it felt being hung up on but he let it go to the machine.
I did not leave a message.
Here is the latest phone call. first of all it was at ten pm. This is way past any civil time to call anyone unless it is an emergency so right away I'm not feeling good about the call. Secondly it is my brother so another reason not to be good about the call but I answer it very inquiringly and kinda obviously curious why someone would call so late with an extended, "hee-looo?"
My brother: did you get my message?
Me: what message?
Him: the one I left on your machine.
Me: obviously not. so what do you wnat?
him: I just wondered why you didn't call me back.
Me: Well I didn't get your message, I thought I just told you that. So what was it about.
Him: Why do you always treat me like I'm bugging the shit out of you? I jsut called to see if you got my message.
Me: This is a ridicules reason to call.
Him: -Hangs up on me-
Huh!?, thinking to myself what the fuck, what a hypocrite. So I go listen to his message. here it is.
"Hey its Keith, Um, call me back."
So, again I'm thinking, what the fuck. Did he really only call to ask if I got his message which only siad to call him back? So I call him back.
Me: Hi its me. I'm returning your call. So what did you want to talk to me about?
Him: I don't want to talk to you while you have this attitude.
Me: (well I don't actually remember what I said but it was something about how he hung up and that he was a hypocrite for doing it after getting all stupid about calling me when he only thought I had hung up when I hadn't. Somewhere I said something about how any call at ten pm would be bothering me since calls in a normal time of day bother me.
This next is not part of our conversation just me venting about his phone calls in general-
I've told him over and over I hate phone calls, They hurt my head, the initial ringing, the focused sound in my ear, the trying to pick up their words and only catching 80% of it, it is all a hassle and a bother for me. Any phone call bothers me, it doesn't matter if it is him or someone calling to give me a million dollars. But he seems to think that the bad attitude I have about phone calls is all a bad attitude against him calling me. Even tho I do have a bad attitude against him and I believe rightfully so, it has nothing to do with him calling on the phone if it is a legitimate call, not one of his many stupid ridiculous calls like calling to ask if I had gotten his previous call instead of just calling and telling me what he wants since I had not returned his previous call and most normal people would just think I missed it which obviously I had since I told him so and yet he would not tell me what he called about only wanted to know why I had not returned his call or calling to say he wanted to come by tomorrow and then calling the next day and say he was coming over maybe in a few hours and he would call later to see if I was home then rather than just calling to see if I was home when he was actually ready and wanting to come over and then in the end calling to say he was not going to be able to make it today because something came up or calling to ask me if I knew about something that he had just found out about my sister when he was over there in the last hour which I would have no way to know anything about and then ask me to find out more about it and let him know instead of just finding out more about it himself like anyone else would and not bother other people with his concerns that may or may not be anyone else's business.
I pretty much went off on him cause this was the stupidest most irritating dumb phone call late at night that he has ever made. At this point he hung up on me again.
so I called him back and this time really got into it; cursing (which I hardly ever do) calling him a hypocrite and trying to get him to stop being stupid and tell me what he wanted and when he went on about not wanting all the attitude and crap and how I was treating him lit shit and can't be civil I hung up on him.
I called a few minutes later to ask him again what he had originally called me about and ask him how it felt being hung up on but he let it go to the machine.
I did not leave a message.
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