Another fight
My jealousy and insecurities once again triggered another fight this afternoon. I don't even know why I ask the questions I ask. I know he's not going to cheat yet I can't stop. Partly because of my OCD which is no excuse. My reassurance issue needs to be addressed quickly before I lose him. It's hard to even be around other woman because i'm jealous. If a pretty girl is in view of me I start doubting myself and why he's with me. I've got to get this jealousy out of my life!
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I am exactly the same way! When I\'m alone it\'s not so much of a problem but if my husband\'s there all i can think about is \"what is he thinking about her?\" I have gotten a lot better and so can you! I couldn\'t even watch movies with attractive women in them (which is like all of them :) ) without getting jealous, it was bad. Once you start reminding yourself that he is not the one with the problem it starts getting a little easier. It was always hard for me to reason with myself while the situation was happening but then afterwards it was all clear. I started (but ever so slowly) to remind myself WHEN the jealous feelings would start that \"everything was okay and he is just talking to this girl, that\'s all\" and it started working!! Sorry for rambling but I just really want you to know you are not alone!