Another crazy
A girl who lived on my street growing up has been harassing me again. I've had so much bother with this woman through the years. A few years ago she told police I threatened to kill her. This was later thrown out as she sent the message to herself however I still had to be interviewed and go through all the nonsense. Years later she somehow got my number. I thought she couldn't be as bad from years ago. After getting a year of respite from her as she had a partner for a year I think. She appeared again. Being the dumbass that I am I told her about my move etc yes I must be desperate for friends. She offered to help and gave me £250. There was no agreement and this was from her with me not asking. I think I part of me thought fuck you for everything you have done so I'll take this no problem. Anyway she kept asking to come to the new place and I got bad vibes and blocked her. She went to the police about the £250 as I saw a message in my spam folder in Facebook. A very disturbing message taunting me that I am going to be arrested and that my cat will starve to death when I'm in jail. I contacted police about this message and asked what was going on. I've yet to hear back. I am worried she may of lied again as it's not against the law to borrow cash and not pay it. The money was never brought up. I blocked her because I had enough. It's been over a week so I'm hoping that it's been dropped. I'm worried that she will harass me even more as she has an extensive criminal record with threats of violence arson etc I have deleted social media also completely I have had enough of this nonsense on top of the bad interactions with the neighbours in my old place. When my family were horrible to me I would soak it up and do nothing. Now I get too emotional. I am trying to revert back to my old ways of do nothing say nothing. I want to move on with my life in my new place. My cat is well looked after I've done well in athletics I want to move on from all the gutter trash I've surrounded myself with
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It's good that you've blocked her
If you can it might be best to pay her back even if it's a little at a time
Just so she'll let it go
Big hug NS
If you want social media you can always start a new account under a different name and pm your friends...xo
I like the idea of starting a new social media account with a different name
Surrounding yourself with positive people is great. Keep taking care of your cat and don't unblock her if at all possible
Hi Sun I don't believe the money is the issue for anger it is a reaction to the blocking. I would still expect a campaign of harassment even when it's repaid or not. However I am going to try to pay it back when possible
perhaps the most important gift i have received from therapy peer support is learning how to handle people who are as crazy --or crazier-- as i am. i opine that it is as high as art forms get, especially when i care enough to not hurt them unnecessarily. i heal immeasurably from each time i manage to manage without inflicting unnecessary pain. ya gotta stand your ground and defend yourself, but? ? ? easy does it.
steadying support while you work it through.
healing hopes for all. no exceptions.
That is a good message Arfie! Sad, im not "caring" much these days. My higher power must guide the way. Amen