an aunt who attacks

I seem to find peace in my life and then I have an aunt who calls me and attacks


incessantly until I'm cowed. I just feel really depressed and like I have to figure my world


out all over again after it. I don't feel like going to yoga now, but I will - when your life doesn't feel like


your own it can get mighty depressing. Ok that's me venting. I will try to look at the bright side.


Like right now I have the opportunity to make my own life without her.

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malibumark
malibumark

I need to just go through the motions. I got dressed for yoga, and will go there for the 845a class.
Then I will go to my parents' house - and just keep in motion. I called my therapist and left a kind of bitching
message. I will just keep on keeping on.
SensitiveHoboLady
SensitiveHoboLady

Sorry to hear mark. I have two aunts who have said ´things’ to me over the years that seem to permeate in my mind when I’m feeling my lowest. Try to not dwell.... hard I know
malibumark
malibumark

Thanks Sensitive!
beckyp
beckyp

Mark, I don't know what your aunt is saying to you, but whatever it was you don't have to sit there and listen. You can always say something like I'm not going to listen to this and until you are ready to treat me right, don't call me back. Then hang up. Something like that anyway. Sorry she is treating you badly.
Community LeaderSunCloudJD
SunCloudJD

That's not cool..... I don't think I'd answer the next time she called and if you do and if she ever starts again I'd tell her that she makes you feel uncomfortable and you think you should hang up now.... Big hug sweetie.... I'm sorry that you had a bad call....xo
malibumark
malibumark

thanks.