Adding to the pile....
1. Grandma passed Saturday
2. Still dealing with internal battle with douchbag.
3 Got a call about one of my brothers having to go to emergency room (needs stitches)
4. Got another call and may have to pick up an EX step sister because she tried to commit suicide 2 times this week. Was committed to a hospital and my dad is requesting I pick her up because she's up here in KS instead of him driving up here to get her.
5. Dad's been drunk I think most of the week. I haven't been able to find out some information in regards to the wills and the set up. He's having to pay 13k for the funeral.
6. There's nothing set up in regards to what he gets and already people on the other side of the family is trying to take over my grandpa's estate (he's not my dad's biological father and they weren't married.)
Is there anything else we can add to the list??
2. Still dealing with internal battle with douchbag.
3 Got a call about one of my brothers having to go to emergency room (needs stitches)
4. Got another call and may have to pick up an EX step sister because she tried to commit suicide 2 times this week. Was committed to a hospital and my dad is requesting I pick her up because she's up here in KS instead of him driving up here to get her.
5. Dad's been drunk I think most of the week. I haven't been able to find out some information in regards to the wills and the set up. He's having to pay 13k for the funeral.
6. There's nothing set up in regards to what he gets and already people on the other side of the family is trying to take over my grandpa's estate (he's not my dad's biological father and they weren't married.)
Is there anything else we can add to the list??
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Oh.my.f-ing.god. You poor thing. I can\'t even wrap my head around all of this. And you are so young. I am left thinking, did this young lady have a childhood? Good luck, dear heart. My thoughts are with you.
Yeah it should be an interesting next few weeks. In regards to childhood well my mom was an alcoholic shipped me and my brother to my dads in another state when I was 16 where I was able to start working and finish High School. Didn\'t even go to prom, had my daughter right out of high school at the age of 19 and been working thru tons of other crap since. Love my babies but man I am so tired of getting shoved down.
Holy cow, anglvette, you have really been through, and are still in, the wringer. OMG!!!! No wonder you are feeling depressed and think you might need meds. Cripes.
It seems you and your mom are ok now, that\'s at least a good thing.
I\'m so sorry your plate is so full, that you have had more experience with dysfunction than not...
I hope and pray that you get some peace at some point. Big hugs...
Hockeymom----yeah it seems like a lot of crap that\'s for sure. Just hoping those meds my mom got me are going to help a little bit and I just keep remembering to breath.
Hockeymom----yeah it seems like a lot of crap that\'s for sure. Just hoping those meds my mom got me are going to help a little bit and I just keep remembering to breath.
Wow. That\'s all I can say. I spent a week with my family of origin this week and thought things were tough dealing with them. You make me realize that things can be a lot more complicated and to be thankful that things were pretty calm...
Hang in there.
(((anglvette)))