A new issue...
Here's an unusual situation. My wife still has a password on her phone account. Not the password on her voicemail. She has a password on her Verizon Account, so I cannot login and view her past phone details. This is how I caught her traveling to LA hooking up with guys, and how I found out about all the different men she was seeing. So...
I just told her I want to talk about this. That her placing a password on the account like this is causing a lot of grief and mistrust. She says she needs some privacy in her life. I asked her what do you need thats private from your husband? She said she just wants it that way.
Should I press this issue? Should I be worried? Is this a normal reaction to my request? Or is my request to ridiculous? I don't know anymore.
Me
I just told her I want to talk about this. That her placing a password on the account like this is causing a lot of grief and mistrust. She says she needs some privacy in her life. I asked her what do you need thats private from your husband? She said she just wants it that way.
Should I press this issue? Should I be worried? Is this a normal reaction to my request? Or is my request to ridiculous? I don't know anymore.
Me
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Your request is not unreasonable.
She lost the right to privacy when she cheated and lied repeatedly.
It is up to you on what you are willing to take. I could not have stayed if I was in the same situation.
Offer a compromise. Ask her to to access her account without giving you the password and let you review the activity.
If she doesn\'t allow it, then you can safely assume she is still cheating.
I\'m with I\'m! (except for the part about the compromise.) There\'s no good reason why you shouldn\'t have access to her phone history. None. Insist on it.
She\'s hiding something.
I cannot believe it!!!!!! I thought it would NEVER happen!!!! My W gave me ALL her passwords to her phone, FaceBook, email(s), computer, bank accounts...everything. Holy crap! I think I will survive this.
It sounds trivial and mundane, but this hiding crap was killing me inside. This was going to push me over the edge. But she came home one evening and out of the blue decided to give me everything. I\'ve been on looking around just to keep her honest, and she actually has been. So what changed? Normalcy? I haven\'t been stress free since 2007.
Whewwwwwwww!!!!