A Laugh a Day!!

A more in depth email from the N (supply must really be running low on that end).  I almost went through the floor laughing!  He went on and on about Oscar Wilde and the story.  He said he wondered why he chose that story, but found it intriguing and inspiring and that even though it's fiction, it is the type of fiction that depicts a lot of reality!!! 
He was waxing pretty poetic over there, he must really be desparate for the help, the supply or failing the class or all of the above. 
At any rate, I just had to share my laugh for the day (and also curb my desire to actually write an essay on why a Narc would choose such a story to have his ex-supply help him write).....
Off to my last week of school for this semester!!  Yippee!!!

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pageo
pageo

\"He said he wondered why he chose that story,\"

He doesn\'t wonder why ... nope, this is the hook AND you are actually working the bait. If you have not said NO by now and told him to get away then you are essentially supply. He has your attention.

I am not good in memory to all peoples story details but do you have children with this Narcissists? Is there a reason for him to contact you at this point? Other wise cut the chord aka drop the ball and chain.

I can understand the amusement to a certain degree but what is keeping you from cutting off entirely as in no response or a flat out assertion that you are no longer interested in communicating (unless you share custody of children).

\"waxing poetic\" and looming with an ageNda.
raniagale
raniagale

I haven\'t had any contact with him in over a year. I know that his hook is that he knows I love to discuss literature and write. He sent the messages through my university account (which I haven\'t quite figured out blocking on as of yet - it never came up before now). I\'m not responding. I guess his transparency was part of what I found a bit funny and then to ask me to help write about the man who traded his soul for appearances, it just struck me as quite humorous.
pageo
pageo

raniagale... It is funny I mean what the irony? Thanks for telling where things are at. I didn\'t understand how he was making contact.

It took 1 year for one narc to contact after NC and 3 years for another one. At first when narc 3 began making contact... I did not realize it but it ended up being stalking which is to say he did not stop just because I did not reply. I had to confront the situation several times to get the point across. The point was \"NO, I am no longer potential supply, get lost\".

Of course from a distance and feeling far from and grounded I can laugh but when I understand that the narc still has a person clocked in as an option... that is not fun.

Don\'t like being on the predators list of things to do.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I am glad that you are not giving him any supply and that his contact is not wearing on you.

Yeah for school being almost over!!!