A Jab
Geo is still very hurt by what I did (almost leave him) and he has all right to be. He's been treating me well and helping me out. The night before (when I had moved out) my "friend" Liz made a list of the reasons why I left. The list was Liz's list, not my list. When I came back to him the next day I showed him the list. He got all mad and sad at the same time. One of the things on the list was "breaking things with his weight". Yesterday, he broke the loveseat that he sits on to watch TV or play games. I told him it was okay, and he said "I haven't forgotten about your list". I need to tell him more how much I love him and how I was brainwashed to leave. I do love him... we are celebrating our 10 year anniversary on the 26th, so it's not worth throwing things away when we have been through so much together. I just have to do all I can to prove to him that I love him, since his trust was broken. I feel horrible for doing it... I know things will never be the same again.
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maybe try making a new list, a list of why you love him and give it to geo. he understands your brainwashing issue and I believe things will get back to normal, it will all take time and work on both sides. many hugs and I am always here for you.
Anns idea of a new list is awesome... it will be a way to show Geo how you truly feel and not what some other person was leading you to think in ways that was not your true feelings. Explain to him the new list is the reasons you came back and how much you do love him. We all make mistakes we are human and humans are not perfect. HugzZz things will get better
I\'m sorry that you went threw this because of your friends.Letting Geo know how you love him is very good. Yes, things won\'t be the same. .but maybe you can both make it better.. Work on being honest with each other find out of you each have fears share and show how you can work together... HUGS
Very sorry to hear. Does he struggle with mental health issues as well? I would think he would be more understanding know your struggles?
that is a LOT of years. as an empath going through it, you would be feeling what he feels as well. (its late at night right now. lol.) so its even more. hope he feels better soon and i hope everything works out for both of you! xxoo