Why did my poor son have to go through this, he loved this girl with all his heart and tried to raise her kids as his own, only to have her 14 yr. old daughter accuse him of raping her, what a load of bull.  We have an email from her stating this and laughing out loud about it, how he was going to spend the rest of his life in jail and she'll be able to anything she wants now.  I can't believe that there are people who really do this, ruin one persons life for their own satisfaction, especially at 14.  She said he was to strict.  I want to do something but don't know what, that is so frustrating.  I can only hope that what goes around comes around and she'll get hers in the end.  I know my son and there is no way on God's green earth that he could possibly have done something like this.  Unfortunatley in this society, you're guilty until proven innocent.  They had nothing against him, just her word, which I guess was enough for this judicial system of ours, what a great system we have, I'm so angry.

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biowoman
biowoman

I understand that anger...injustice is always so frustrating. I hope that his innocence is shown, so that this part of your struggle can be removed from the equation. Peace to you today...Karen
KellyLee105
KellyLee105

I agree with karen.. I\'m so sorry.. You have every right to be angry... Take Care!! Kelly
PJsmom
PJsmom

Thank you all, this is what makes it all the harder for me to deal with this, I can only hope that there is some way that I can clear his name, if it wasn\'t for this girl, I\'d still have my son, it just isn\'t fair.
deleted_user
deleted_user

It is so hard to move on when there has been such outrageous injustice. I worked with a young girl who accused her step father of raping her. I had to contain my anger in order to help her which I knew would ultimately help him, but my heart went to him and the rest of the family from the beginning. There may be no way to clear his name unless she tells the truth. I hope you can find some small comfort in knowing that he is in a better place now and that God knows his innocence. I understand how angry ou must be, but I hope that you can find some way to get through it. She has taken enough from you already without your anger becoming something that destroys you too. Hugs, Charlotte.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I know your frustration. My son shot himself over his drunken wife who said she was leaving him. I cannot believe it either. We have every reason to believe it was homicide but the investigator was negligent in many ways. Please read my journal if you would like to know more. I pray you can do something. I seem to recall a woman getting charged and punished for the suicide of a young girl for something she said over myspace or email...I have forgotten the details. I think that people should be charged when they are instrumental in a person\'s death...even suicide. God bless you as you try to find comfort during your grief.
Peace and hugs.....Dale, Brandon\'s Mom