Well it didnt even last a week.  This whole friend thing. The whole her and I working through this together thing.She saw him again last night.  What a lying bitch.  How pathetic and weak.  How hard it must be to walk away from 10 years when you have someone waiting for you on the side. Someone to be with you and lift you up, someone so you dont have to be alone.She lied all week to me.  She never intended to stop seeing him.  Its obvious her claims about just meeting him are a lie as well.  I am such a fool. God what an idiot.  Why did I sign that paperwork? If I hadnt signed I could go back to the house and kick her out, make her live in the apartment if she wants to be with her boyfriend.   Make her pay for the lawyer to divorce me and break up our family.I think im going to get a lawyer anyways. That paperwork was temporary as far as the arrangements and can still be changed.  I want 50% of her savings. I want maintenance till I get on my feet.  Hell I want child support.  Why not, she is the big wage earner.  Why should I struggle to feed my kids.I would never have believed her capable of this.   I am thinking of moving back to my hometown and taking my oldest son with me. He wants to be with me.  He is old enough to choose.  Sucks for Collin my youngest, he is going to lose his dad as a full time dad, and his brother as a full time brother.  All because she was to weak to be alone, or to work on our marriage.