9/14/2013
One sided relationships. You find them anywhere anytime. Romantic relationships, friendships, family relationships. They can all be one sided. And it hurts when you see that.
Tried to talk to a family member about ex and wedding, etc. Doesn't even let me get a sentence out before shutting me down :I have nothing to say about that". Doesn't see I need to talk to her about it. I don't know why, I just felt the need. Yep, I should have known better. She isn't a warm and fuzzy nurturing kind of person. But, shouldn't she be there for me anyway? I've always been there for her. I've always listened. I didn't necessarily want her to say anything, but couldn't she have listened. Was the "I have nothing to say about that necessary?
Feel like I was kicked after already being down for the count. Ah well, this is what boundaries are for. Kinda bad when your friends are more there for you than family. But, not the first time. Lesson learned-again.
Still doing well in regards to no contact with ex....feel very good about it. doesnt hurt, yet. Staying strong.
Tried to talk to a family member about ex and wedding, etc. Doesn't even let me get a sentence out before shutting me down :I have nothing to say about that". Doesn't see I need to talk to her about it. I don't know why, I just felt the need. Yep, I should have known better. She isn't a warm and fuzzy nurturing kind of person. But, shouldn't she be there for me anyway? I've always been there for her. I've always listened. I didn't necessarily want her to say anything, but couldn't she have listened. Was the "I have nothing to say about that necessary?
Feel like I was kicked after already being down for the count. Ah well, this is what boundaries are for. Kinda bad when your friends are more there for you than family. But, not the first time. Lesson learned-again.
Still doing well in regards to no contact with ex....feel very good about it. doesnt hurt, yet. Staying strong.
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ok..i accept my timing was bad. But still she is like that and I know it....always setting myself up. doing the same thing and expecting a different result..oh well.