My friends encourage me. Everytime I mention him, they will snap me out of it, they will remind me I have a new life and that maybe I am better off without him.
But, I just want to tell someone I miss him..And I want to miss him because..I love him..And it's ok to miss  ... 

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deleted_user
deleted_user

It\'s true sometimes you just need someone to listen, without them saying anything back..... Hugs Alexandra...
deleted_user
deleted_user

My friends at work threaten to \"smack me silly\" at the idea of missing \"her\". But I don\'t really miss her anymore.
She is just someone I used to know, that I don\'t know anymore.
It\'s sad, but it happens.
It\'s just a chapter in your life. It\'s not the whole story.
warmheart
warmheart

Here\'s the difference hun...It IS okay to miss him and let the thoughts of him pass through your mind. IT\'S NOT okay to dwell on missing him. Let the thoughts come in a let them go.....change them to something else and don\'t give them time to settle in your mind and take up your energy and emotions. Let them pass and in time they will greatly subside, unless you keep hurting yourself by building things in your mind that actually do you no good at all. Let the thoughts pass by and don\'t give them the attention you have been giving them. Be kinder to yourself please. It\'s up to you...
be well and take care ,...... denn