I can't believe this! I think I saw my ex with a NEW gf! Not the girl for whom he left me. But a different one. She was pretty too. Well dressed and so chic. Calm and relaxed. Very docile and sweet. All the things I can never be. Especially now that I hate men :))
OMG two girls in a month and a half? WTF?! I can't even go out with a guy friend..Just someone to talk to as friends, because I can't stop thinking about him. I think I'll turn into a feminist.
I feel like quality crap :D A real nice crap.
OMG two girls in a month and a half? WTF?! I can't even go out with a guy friend..Just someone to talk to as friends, because I can't stop thinking about him. I think I'll turn into a feminist.
I feel like quality crap :D A real nice crap.
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Alex, we are so much alike. I too have a hard time even talking to a guy friend bcuz I cant stop thinking about him... This is def a roller coaster.
I feel ya hard on this one. Considering the x\'s have no problem going out with new women, while we are still stuck in time and heart... I think we need to take this as a sign and do the best to pull ourselves up :)
At least 2 women in the month since you broke up?
Maybe you\'ve dodged a bullet, being free of that guy may be a blessing.
I think everyone that is betrayed has a period where they want to give up and not risk being burned again.
I had that for a while.
But I don\'t want to spend my life alone because of what my wife did.
I don\'t want her to have that kind of power over me forever.
She felt free to shop around for a new man while still married to me.
In that case , if I move on now, I should feel no guilt or shame.
Neither should you.
Do what you feel is right, whenever it feels right.
Set your own rules and your own pace.
Don\'t give someone who hurt you, the power to control your future. Just choose more carefully , and don\'t settle for \"close enough\".
Being unhappy and alone won\'t make you better than him in the eyes of the universe.
Just lonely.