ok...im gonna admit something right here...i feel like crying right now...my feelings are so hurt....by my mother =(....ok so last night, james and i were star gazing outside/making out.....and my sister came out with a flashlight and shined it on us and said that my father was getting mad cuz james was still there...so james left...and this morning i asked my parents if they were really getting mad last night about james being over still...and my mom was like "no not mad, it was just getting late...and btw...no boys in ur room!"....ok so we were gonna watch a movie in my room at 1 in the afternoon...is this a sin? we werent gonna do ne thing! i am not a slut!....so i said "well then mom, jen shouldnt be allowed to have shawn in her room then! just because her room is downstairs shouldnt mean that shes exempt from the house rules!"....and my mom said "well jen's situation is totally different!"..and i said "and how's that?"...and she said "because shes normal!...uve already kissed james! dont u htink ur moving a little fast?".......ok....god forbid i kiss someone...i didnt have sex with him! im not a slut! last i looked a kiss was innocent....grrr..i cant win no matter waht i do...o yea, and last i looked, my ED does not make me kiss guys......but on the upside, james and i are gonna see each other tomorrow! and we make such a great couple that we r official now!
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urgghh.thats annoying..\'normal\'...that would piss me off the most.
i\'m gald yuu get to see him tm...forget yuur mom...and havee fun
Why are your feeling hurt? Your mom was just being a mom *laughs*.... You have to realize one day that even our parents don\'t understand us truly. My Mother is great, but she doesn\'t share all the same opinions exactly with me, ya know? You are an adult, and as an adult you can make out with who ever you want. How are you to learn things in life if you don\'t experience them? You mother is just being a mom, and I remember the first time I told my mom I wasn\'t a virgin and the conversation that was like. *Wipes head of Sweat*.... Yeah, it was a bad one... A heated one! So don\'t worry, you are normal and you aren\'t a slut. Love ya! I\'ve missed hearing from you all week :)
\"normal\" wtf is that supposed to mean. i suppose on one hand i can see where she\'s comming from only in so far as that she\'s a mom - and in saying that - she\'s a woman, and in fact was once a young woman
and she prob knows more than you think re: guys/girls and how inncently theese things seem when the happen.
BUT! - what she said is so insulting(no disrespect to your momma) but how does she know your sister isn\'t kisisng /hasnt kissed boys
and since when has kissing been a crime AND....
just because you kiss someone, its not a neon sign saying\"im going to jump into bed with them
I\'ve kissed quite a few boys and im still a virgin!
tell your mom that one and im 21~!
My mom was that same way with me....I wasn\'t a slut either, but she made me feel that way sometimes. There\'s nothing wrong with you kissing him last night. I\'m proud of you for not being afraid to jump in and have fun and enjoy your time with him. I know my mom was like that b/c she made lots of mistakes herself with guys, and i guess she didn\'t want me to do that. But, this is your life, and as long as you are not doing anything unsafe, live your life! I hope you have a great time with him tonight. Hugs!
Just ignore her, as long as you know yourself and are strong enough to do what you want and not be pressured into anything then you will be fine. She probably is just trying to protect you, but like so many things parents do going about it the wrong way! Congrats on getting your beau by the way:)
that is the fastest get together in history... dont let anyone spoil ur happiness lady! You will find a way thru... ur mom is prob just over protective of you... glad its going well, xxx
hmm i wonder y ur mums being like that it\'s not very fair!