well let's see here...im trying so hard to avoid all men at the moment...like my sister and i were talking last night and we have concluded that the male gender has become the needy gender.....and i dont like this at all...like it seems that every guy i go on a date with wants me to label him my bf....and i dont need that stress right now.....as for the guy i accidentally kissed...ive been trying to avoid him at all costs......this includes not answering his calls and turning my cell phone off....to get away from this all for awhile i went to my favorite place in the entire world (moment of silence please!!!)drumroll......****starbucks**** got my black coffee with sugar free cinnamon dolce syrup and was on my way to my sister's house feeling pretty good when i see this guy in the suv next to me smiling, winking, and waving at me...he must have thought i was a bitch cuz i just rolled my eyes and sped up....i swear driving is not even safe haven from men anymore!....i just need a break from the dating world for awhile and concentrate on staying semi healthy and getting my frikin school work that has been piling up done....but how do i let these guys down without making them think that they did somethign wrong? i cant use the whole its not u its me line (even though thats the truth)...cuz that line is sooo over done and not believed ne more.....well kudos to anyone who bothers to read this novel i have typed!
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I know what you mean! Guys are needy. Just tell them that you are not interested at the moment. If they get mad, they get mad. They will get over it. You need to concentrate on you right now!
hi there, just got your comment about routines from my journ. entry. See, i dunno if it\'s \"fortunately\" or \"unfortunately\", but the opposite happens when my routine gets messed up (and yes, i dont mind eating the same foods everyday, growing up i ate peanut butter sandwiches every except pizza fridays!) i eat MORE, not less. Then i freak out that i ate so many calories, and then, well you know what happens then.... Funny how strayin from a stupid little daily routine can be so catastrophic..
oh yea, and thats the other thing, i know going on trips would ruin my routine, or even go out or hanging out around town is enough, but im not afraid about ruining my routine, im more afraid others will think less of me that i didnt hangout or they won\'t wanna hang out with me later, so then i do go (and why else shouldnt i? they dont know the real reasons for hesitation)..... tough calls for us huh...
yeah boys can be a pain! You should probably just tell him that you aren\'t interested and get him to leave you alone now. It is smart to not deal with it right now, you have too much going on!
yeah boys can be a pain! You should probably just tell him that you aren\'t interested and get him to leave you alone now. It is smart to not deal with it right now, you have too much going on!
yeah boys can be a pain! You should probably just tell him that you aren\'t interested and get him to leave you alone now. It is smart to not deal with it right now, you have too much going on!
I am just blunt. I\'m like hey no offence, but I am just not interested. I the type of person who doesn\'t give a crap what I say or whatever. If I don\'t like the guy, I don\'t like him, and he should just go on his way.
I\'m not rude persay, I just make sure they know because sometimes guys like to do the \'just keep trying\' thing. Which you know, is fine if you want that, but you don\'t so speak up woman!!
Not all men are like this. It just takes time. Just keep working on yourself, and you\'ll run into a decent guy when you least expect it.
I know this because you sound just like me, and now it\'s happening to me! I met a great guy.