8/5/2013

Epiphany yesterday. I stood by him for the better part of 25 years. Through hell and back. Bankruptcies, car repos, owing taxes, the cheating, the lies, the constant changing of jobs/careers, the moving etc etc etc. None of which I'd ever been through until I was with him. I was there and I stayed. I'm the only one is his life who ever stood by him through everything. And everytime he dumped me and then came wanting me to take him back, I did. I forgave him every single time and I took him back every single time. The last time I took him back, I told him this was his last chance. Let me go again, and that's it.
Fast forward 14-15 years and instead of talking to me about what was bothering him. Instead of talking to me and giving ME another chance to make up for some things, he went looking for someone else and tossed me in to the debris pile. Didn't even let me now he was upset. Didn't even give me a chance to apologize. didn't even try to work with me to make our marriage better.
What a guy...