8/1/13
It may be getting easier. I hate to say it is, for fear of jinxing it, though. Doing the no contact thing. Have not seen him since July 9. Have not had any contact at all since July 20. He did call me a couple of times but I didn't answer or return the calls. I know he was just calling to make arrangements to take my dog to the groomer when he took his like we'd planned. But I just did not want to talk to him. I've been hibernating. Don't want to talk to anybody. Not good for me but I can only fight one battle at a time and right now it's the no contact battle.
Tremendously lonely. Really would like to meet a nice guy to do things with and maybe take to the wedding with me next May. But right now focused on putting myself back together again.
Tremendously lonely. Really would like to meet a nice guy to do things with and maybe take to the wedding with me next May. But right now focused on putting myself back together again.
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It will get easier! At first with no contact I thought I couldn\'t breathe!!! One day at a time sister!
Lori is right it will get easier and if you can only fight one battle at a time then that is what you do. One day at a time will turn into a week at a time and then a month. You will be able to do this.
I did the same thing. Imagine living in the same house and trying to have no contact. I did not say one word to him the whole time. You need some major me time. I took almost two yrs. before I even talked to people. If people do not understand that so be it. Look after number one for now and that is you. hugs
Thanks all. It is getting a little easier day by day. The fact that he evidently has not even realized helps.