hi to my special friends yesterday jessy's tombstone was put up.  i went to watch, my mom and husband, and khaely and jarod came with. it took quite long. i was very quiet. it was gentle. i was numb.  i was very aware of the sky. it was a hot hot day. the sky was clear, with few scattered clouds. it was very very very bright. we were there for about 2 hours. by then the clouds had built up quite a bit.  the sun shone through. my jessy is really dead. she is really buried.