He now wants to charge me $10 everytime my account drops below $5,000. I'm not sure how I would ever keep a balance over 5,000 considering he only gives me a little over 3,000 a month for food, household items, gas, eating out, kids clothes and activities. Etc.
He has the money. It's not me spending beyond our means. I drive a used car. I buy my kids clothes at target or on sale. Except the boys athletic shoes and supplies. I am not a big spender. Maybe we eat out too much but even that I keep to a couple times a week. And if the kids eat out more I take it out cash I've kept hidden. He says I need to learn to budget and save.... I am the one who budgeted us thru half of med school to be debt free. I am the one who has kept us budgeted the last 15 yrs. He's the fucking moron choosing to sit on the house rather than accept what we can get for it!!! Not me! I want it sold. Gone.
I'm struggling today not to just tell him to leave and go hire a lawyer.
Sorry I just can't take it today. And. On so little sleep. The asshole waited till I was done cleaning up from my daughter's slumber party. The first moment I had to just relax since 6:30 this morning. (After going to bed at 2:30) To even talk about.
Sometimes. I think it would be better if he would just hit me. And then I could know for sure it's abusive and that he's the bad guy not me. I live in a constant state of questioning myself and who I am as a person. Is it me...am I just that unhappy. Am I projecting because I'm just an unhappy person.
He has the money. It's not me spending beyond our means. I drive a used car. I buy my kids clothes at target or on sale. Except the boys athletic shoes and supplies. I am not a big spender. Maybe we eat out too much but even that I keep to a couple times a week. And if the kids eat out more I take it out cash I've kept hidden. He says I need to learn to budget and save.... I am the one who budgeted us thru half of med school to be debt free. I am the one who has kept us budgeted the last 15 yrs. He's the fucking moron choosing to sit on the house rather than accept what we can get for it!!! Not me! I want it sold. Gone.
I'm struggling today not to just tell him to leave and go hire a lawyer.
Sorry I just can't take it today. And. On so little sleep. The asshole waited till I was done cleaning up from my daughter's slumber party. The first moment I had to just relax since 6:30 this morning. (After going to bed at 2:30) To even talk about.
Sometimes. I think it would be better if he would just hit me. And then I could know for sure it's abusive and that he's the bad guy not me. I live in a constant state of questioning myself and who I am as a person. Is it me...am I just that unhappy. Am I projecting because I'm just an unhappy person.
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